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I've been with my fianceé for about 4 years now and, when she and I started dating, she was about 220 lbs (at 5' 7" ). She also used to be really self conscious about her weight and curves. I've been honest with her about how much I love her curves and I tell her how she's beautiful and that she shouldn't be as worried about being judged for her weight. And, as we've been together, she's gotten much more comfortable and confident. She shows off her curves more often, a lot around me, but she can occasionally be self conscious about it in public.
Over the past few years, she's pretty much been eating what she wants, when she wants and I definitely indulge her appetite and get her snacks and treats (I just bought her 8 family sized bags Reeses trees today and she's already gone through one lol). Just the other day, she was at the doctor and weighed in at 363 lbs. She definitely seems more comfortable with her size now than she did when we first started dating and she was smaller and our sex life has only gotten better as she's continued to grow. She definitely teases me by doing things like jiggling her fat or bouncing her belly around in front of me.
She's getting so big and I'm enjoying it quite a bit. However, a part of me feels a bit guilty cause I know she likes being active and it probably will get harder for her to be active if she continues to get fatter. But at the same time, she enjoys it when I cook for her and get her her favorite candy and make her snacks.
I'm definitely looking forward to my future with her. I never thought I'd be with someone I could be open with about liking their weight gain, and, while I've dated chubby girls, I never thought I'd end up with a SSBBW (she's grown into one over the course of our relationship). If she continues to keep getting bigger, I'll definitely enjoy it. I love her for her first and foremost, but the 140lbs+ (and potentially more in the future) weight gain and added confidence has been a fantastic bonus.
I've been with my fianceé for about 4 years now and, when she and I started dating, she was about 220 lbs (at 5' 7" ). She also used to be really self conscious about her weight and curves. I've been honest with her about how much I love her curves and I tell her how she's beautiful and that she shouldn't be as worried about being judged for her weight. And, as we've been together, she's gotten much more comfortable and confident. She shows off her curves more often, a lot around me, but she can occasionally be self conscious about it in public.
Over the past few years, she's pretty much been eating what she wants, when she wants and I definitely indulge her appetite and get her snacks and treats (I just bought her 8 family sized bags Reeses trees today and she's already gone through one lol). Just the other day, she was at the doctor and weighed in at 363 lbs. She definitely seems more comfortable with her size now than she did when we first started dating and she was smaller and our sex life has only gotten better as she's continued to grow. She definitely teases me by doing things like jiggling her fat or bouncing her belly around in front of me.
She's getting so big and I'm enjoying it quite a bit. However, a part of me feels a bit guilty cause I know she likes being active and it probably will get harder for her to be active if she continues to get fatter. But at the same time, she enjoys it when I cook for her and get her her favorite candy and make her snacks.
I'm definitely looking forward to my future with her. I never thought I'd be with someone I could be open with about liking their weight gain, and, while I've dated chubby girls, I never thought I'd end up with a SSBBW (she's grown into one over the course of our relationship). If she continues to keep getting bigger, I'll definitely enjoy it. I love her for her first and foremost, but the 140lbs+ (and potentially more in the future) weight gain and added confidence has been a fantastic bonus.
Lucky man indeed. It is rare to have a partner gain so much.
2 years